7 habits of Highly Successful Teens
Habit 4
4. Think
win-win
Teens can
learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of
win-win in every relationship. This habit encourage the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial
solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishment of others instead
of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief
that everyone can win. It’s both nice and thought all at once. I won’t step on
you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you want
them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as
well. Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to
go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of the pie. Theirs more than enough food for everyone.
It’s an all you can eat buffet. Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the
most surprising benefits of thinking Win-Win is good feelings it brings on. The
true test to whether you are thinking Win-Win or one of the alternitivesis how
you feel. Win-lose and Loss-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and feel you
with negative feeling.
Win-Win will
fill your heart with happy and serene thought. It will give you confidence. Even
fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
Choose the Right!!!
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